example of cause and effect essay

The More Limit Time, the More Changing

The world is more and more developing and many challenges to be faced to keep alive. Many couples of a family work together to fill their needs up especially for women who want to help the family and also take a part in an important role as men in the family. As result, women do not really have time for the family moreover the children to “have a nice day” together because of being busy with the works. As a consequence, having more mothers in the workforce has changed the way many children grow up. Here some factors:

First, mothers do not have plenty of time for children. Consequently, mothers have no more time to control and take good thing for them. It makes children become naughty kids and they do not really know whether they are doing is good or bad. In addition, if mothers have a limit time because of their working, it will make mothers have less sharing to their children. Since having less sharing, children can’t express or tell anything to their mothers, as comfortable people, children love to. Those will make the ideas between mothers and children are opposite.

Second, mothers have a limit time to nurture. As we know children are very spoiled and innocent they do not know what to do and not what to do yet. If mothers are very busy workers, it will cause less nurture and taking care of their children because their children need guiding and a friend to have chat and give attention to. And those absolutely make children will tend to keep alone and just doing what they want, no meter it’s good or not, and will make more rebellious.

The last, about mothers’ affection, since having a limit time to see, control, or nurture means that less affection and attention to be given to. Children need love and affection form mother who had born them or as the trusted place they can cry on because mothers, who have a natural sense, can know and understand what children feel. And if children do not get an enough of affection and attention from mothers when they are childhood, they will be ignorant kids who do not really care to others.

In conclusion, being mother in workforce or (and) mother household is a choice, both are beneficial for each right place but it will damage another one if it’s not in its right place. Helping family by working is totally a good thing but it will damage another one such as having children, if mothers cannot manage the time well for every each as like having a limit time to take care and nurture their children because of busy on working. So, we have to consider the good thing and the effects before deciding and be responsible after it even working we can still spend much time for children and family. Then, we will be balance in working and taking care of our beloved children.